Eulogy For A Father

18th May 1934 – 25th July 2009

For those who know him, he was a very responsible man.

Some may say he is “kedekut” but on hind sight, one should know he was always practical.

He lived his life the way he wanted to live.

Frugal, simple and he is always happy.

He was proud that he doesn’t need to ask for a handout from his children.

He planned for his future to ensure he can take care of himself.

It was not easy when he broke down physically and had to depend on others.

He was a proud man.

A proudness that is shared by his children.

He was never arrogant, as he never trouble others.

Even in death, he left on a Saturday morning, knowing his funeral will be on a Sunday.

He left peacefully in his sleep, in his bed, in his home.

No leaves need to be taken.

It is ironic that the only kiss I have given him is on his forehead as he lies there lifeless.

Any regrets?

None.

We were never close as we had a lot of falling out.

The past few years, we did get closer, he did show more of his emotions, and we did spend more time together.

He will be missed.

He will always be loved.