Friday, September 2, 2011

A Day Out

I had a day out with the girls.

It was fun.

Met them in Melaka and they wanted to watch Final Destination 5.

Too bad they were denied tickets because they were not old enough.

Was forced to watch Smurfs.

Luckily the movie was entertaining without being too childish.

Played some arcade games and had a heart to heart talk with them.

A great day to remember by.

Will miss them till I see them again.

Btw, made them promise me to stay in contact at least once a week.

I hope that works.

Monday, August 15, 2011

At Last


Its final, I was offered a job

No more unofficial crap that gets me screwed over

Its a listed company with strong financial resources

Will be starting after Raya

Now I can sleep better


Sunday, July 31, 2011


Its the end of the month.

Nothing has changed.

Same old same old.

My financial situation is still in tatters.

Ramadhan starts tomorrow.

Hopefully things will be better.

Year 2011 really sucks!

Saturday, June 18, 2011

New Babies


Got myself a pair of kittens.

The one on the left is all black with a white spot on its lower neck.

Named it Loki coz its always up to some mischief.

The one on the right is dark grey with stripes on its legs and belly.

Reminds me of a Tazmanian Devil.

Its extremely hyper and likes to jump all over the place.

Named it Tazzy.


I'm Back

I didn’t blog in May coz a lot has happened.

Unfortunately, not good things.

Promises made were not kept and I got screwed over again.

Financially screwed over.

The worst kind.

On other fronts, everything is great.

Stressing on finances has kept me busy for the past one and a half months.

In a nutshell, I am gonna be looking for a job again.

Well, having a half year vacation should be enough.


Friday, April 22, 2011

Roll Call

Here we go again......

Linda, Dayana, Alena, Muliza, American Chick, Zuridah, Stephanie, Joyce, Shikin, Nadiah, Nicole, Yana, Zurina, Madeline, Pahang Gal, Sue, Dewi, Mie, Fizah, Siti, Bee, Lyana, Moon, Nurul, Beth, Sherry, Tina, Syezza, Filly, Fern, Maya, Yaya, Karen, Wan, Ziera, Waeda, Bella, Diera

Time to walk the talk!

Month of April is a decisive month.

I have decided to NOT work!!!!

Gonna build my own network and make my own money.

I have been training others how to build their network and make their money.

Time to stop teaching and start doing.

Time to walk the talk!

Friday, March 25, 2011

Car Situation

Bought the wrong battery - RM299.00

Fried the car's circuits and had to be towed - RM140.00

Replacing circuit board at workshop - RM375.00

Learning how to identify the right battery - PRICELESS!!!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Square One

Its like I just hit the reboot button.

Everything back to nothing.

I have officially cut off all ties with my previous employer.

Liquidated the company, terminated the rental, made a police report and sent an official email to him for all that I have done.

Even after liquidating everything, he still owes me money.

Legal advice was to sue his ass but I don’t have time to deal with scumbags.

Actually I do but I do not want to waste it chasing an asshole who doesn’t want to be found.

I do have legal and illegal resources at my disposal but I believe my quality of life would be better by putting him in my past.

I just got a callback for a second interview for an MNC to be based in Jakarta.

I would rather concentrate on that.

I am also in a competition in FB that’s keeping me busy.

Not to mention a movie marathon this weekend with my babies.

All positive aspects in my life that I should focus on.

Not gonna dwell on a bastard who thinks that he can play God with people’s life just because he has lots of money.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Tomorrow Has To Come

Tomorrow I will be making a report against my boss.

He has declined to pay my salary due to his own problems.

Under normal circumstances I would just move on.

I do not like drama or scenes.

But I cannot afford it.

He owes me and I need the money.

I have to lock down the office and make a formal complaint at the Labour Department.


All I wanted is work and get paid.

Hate politics and unprofessional people.

Its horrible when the boss is the unprofessional one.

Gotta move on.... have given him an ultimatum and he has ignored me.

I hope our Labour Department is efficient in getting my salary.

Monday, March 14, 2011

Bosses From Hell

I just changed job recently because the perks provided was too good to be passed up.

Now I find out he is a boss from hell.

I don’t mind if the boss is cranky, foul mouth or a slave driver.

I can deal with it.

But I am referring to bosses who don’t pay (when they have oodles of cash in their personal account).

My current boss refuses to pay because there is no business.

Its not my fault but he is blaming me.

I cant bring in the business if the company is not registered!

Its not registered because he took more than a month to register!

I have had other bosses like that.

1.Boss refuses to pay because he had a falling out with his partner. He told me to get it from his partner. His partner has ran away!!!

2. No salary because business is bad. The business is bad because the boss insists on playing hours of snooker with management and me! How the F&*# are we suppose to do marketing???

The thing that gets me pissed off is that these fuckers are rich!

They would rather screw the working class than to be responsible.

Now I have to go job hunting.


Monday, March 7, 2011

Black March

Everything that can go wrong went wrong.

I started March with dread, hoping that my fears will not come true....

Its not confirmed yet, but the month is shaping up to be my worst case scenario.

I took a gamble late last year and it looks like things are not shaping up as expected.

Back to the drawing board.


Thursday, February 24, 2011

One For The Books

Thats Aria holding a cup to the wall with her forehead while wailing away.

This is her time out.

I think that its sooooo cute.

I used to make my daughters stand at a corner when they misbehave.

Wish I thought of this when they were growing up.

This is a lot more fun.

For me.

Not the one taking a time out.


Wednesday, February 23, 2011

The Truth

You want the truth?

You cant handle the truth!

A line from "A Few Good Men"

Its so true

I hear loads of bitching from people and the blame always goes to others but never themselves.

If it happens all the time, shouldn't one starts to reflect?

When I insult you, are you offended because you know that its true?

If you don't want an honest in your face opinion, don't ask me for one!

Tuesday, February 22, 2011


The month is finishing and is blah!

Cant be avoided after the exciting and hectic last few months.

I guess blah is a good thing.

Nothing in sight for the next few months.

Currently planning for the next vacation.

Am hoping that work will fill in the blanks but my boss is soooo slow.

Hopefully things will pick up in March workwise.

For now.......


Monday, February 14, 2011


This year didn’t do anything for Valentines.

It is said that on Valentines we celebrate our relationships with flowers, gifts and romantic dinners or dates.


I do that almost everyday.

I don’t need a reason to buy my beloved a gift.

I don’t need an excuse to take her out for a nice dinner.

I don’t need a pretext to show her how much I love her.

Everyday that I wake up next to her is a Valentines for me.


Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Chinese New Year

CNY was different this year.

We went away instead of staying home.

Stayed at AFamosa for 3 days.

It was a great bonding time for the family without interruptions from the TV or unannounced guest.

Fun in the water.... literally.

Night time is gambling time.

Even the kids have their own session.... except for Serene who is doing her homework??

Friday, January 28, 2011

Reflections..... Grow Up?

Yes…. It’s a condom.

I was holding it coz I needed to make a speech and a mic was not available.

My shirt was drenched from all the foam that they showered on me.

It was a great night but I am not here to talk about that night or who was there or what happened.

I wanna talk about who was not there.

Some of my closest friends were not there.

Some were overseas and some were….. making excuses?

Some of my friends grew up and started acting their age.

Sure, I am 40 but act my age?

How is a 40 year old suppose to act?

No fun allowed?

No more crazy nights?


I am having fun and I am living my life.

I am a father and a husband, but does that mean I no longer can have any fun?

Some will say grow up.

Be an adult.

I say Fuck You!

I don’t hurt those around me, I am not irresponsible, I am just living my life and not be a hypocrite.

I have no regrets.

I am surrounded by friends that I love who loves me back.

I have a soulmate who is my best friend.

My siblings are closer to me more than before.

My life is great.

How is yours treating you?

Having fun as an adult?


Monotonous lifestyle?

You have my pity……

Don’t judge me just because you don’t have the balls to stay true to yourself.

When you stop being yourself, you are already dead.

Stop making excuses that you are an adult!

Goodbye Kaloi

It finally happened.

Kaloi passed away today at exactly 2314.

Before passing away, Kaloi was thrashing away in the tank, trying to jump out of the water.

There was nothing I can do but just watch.

I feel totally useless watching it suffer.

I never knew what was wrong.

I gave it vitamins, change the water….. but it has been suffering for months.

I know.

I can feel it.

On a brighter note, Kaloi was the longest pet that survived with me.

I believe it has been at least 5 years.

From a tiny fish no bigger than my palm, it has grown to be as big as my thigh.

Goodbye Kaloi, for you can never be replaced.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

40th Birthday

Woohoo….. I’m officially 40.

On my birthday, I had a sober dinner with the family.

Then Yana said that was it….. I was disappointed but I thought that’s fitting for a 40 year old.

No more wild parties or boozing.

I was so wrong.

The following weekend, Yana roped in Gareth to take me to Garden Suite…. A surprised party with loads of booze.

Hehehe…. It was great.

Just wanna thank Yana, Alyssa, Diane, Gareth, Allan, Jo, Jeanne, Mei Ling, Chandra, Jay and JK for making the party happening and fun.


Family dinner.

Cake time!

Was made into a snowman when I entered the room.

Surrounded by hot gals.

Chandra and gang.

Gareth and Allan.

Jo just gave me a birthday greeting on the floor.

Diane is out for the count.

Winding down….. I’m hammered!

Friday, January 7, 2011

The Clock Ticks (Part 4) Down Memory Lane

Another 2 days before I hit the big Four-O!

Went thru some of my old pictures and wanna share some that kinda chronicle my life.

Here it is:

My youngest known picture. No idea how old am I here.

In primary school.

In secondary school.

In the school Cadet Band.

Working fresh out of school.

Getting married.

Celebrating my birthday with my daughters and nieces.

And my rock that holds it all together. (Check out the TShirt…. Hahahaha)

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Happy New Year

Started the new year with my beloved and close friends at home.

Diane was not around because she wanted to go clubbing.

Lots of drinks and food.

I was content.

Its all good.

I know 2011 will be a good year.

Cant wait to get started.